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This is not so much an existential conundrum as a fork in the path of my life. It won't seem that important or sensible unless you understand so hear it is:
I've never been too happy with my name. In the wrong hands Alexander Jahans becomes Alexandra Yohans and there in lies a world of pain and agony when every P.E teacher thinks they're being really clever when they pronounce your name in a foreign way.
That's probably a bit racist so sorry but Jahans does to some ears sound a bit foreign. My dad is constantly asked where he comes from and as a result he virtually has a pie chart detailing just how much of him is foreign and where from. The whole point is moot when it comes to me because as far as I'm concerned I'm English! My dad's born and raised in Bristol, his mum helped in the war, and my mum comes from such an English bloodline that my uncle now lives in Shakespeare's home town. I myself am a very loyal fan of the BBC and proudly feel a mixture of nostalgia and patriotism when I see the Great British Icons.
Okay I can tell you're all wondering now if I vote for the BNP and I don't, though I would rather like the BNP to be like British national sports, full of the best from all around the world. Also I rather like my middle name, Gordon, nice and resounding in it's stiff upper lipness. Gordon is the name of a banker, fiercely intelligent, serious, moral, a bit dull maybe but eminently trust worthy.
I like Gordon, Gordon's a nice name.
Other things to consider are the facts that someone by the name of Alex Jahans has a widely known reputation in Woking, one he doesn't like, and there is the fact that I did a lot of things as Alex Jahans that I now regret but things that I cannot simply ignore as childish stupidity because at the time I always thought it was the right thing to do, I can't devalue or cheapen those choices but neither can I be associated with them. I have to draw a line in the sand and say that was then and this is now.
Also I have changed so much since those schooldays, I have done so much, to keep calling myself the same person when the habits and thoughts, the personality and the actual physicality are long gone is a lie and a sham. Alex Jahans died watching Top gear on Dave then I took over, eager to learn about the world and fit in, he lingered on though, the madness and naivety of Alex Jahans continued on until the death of the tenth Doctor and the end of 2009. Now the scheming loner who cared only for tele and not for hygiene or education or a balanced diet, the boy who stubbornly refused to be organised or have any sort of routine and loved his mum and was terrified of his dad is dead.
I still look like him of course and still indulge in pizza, diet coke and mints, I still need tv and fiction to survive but now I brush my teeth 4 times a day (actually twice but I brush first with a manual to apply to toothpase then use an electric toothbrush), shower weekly, keep a diary, use a calender, take care in my appearance and eat veg with my main meals aswell as drinking fruit with my dietcoke. It's not new either, all have been done for atleast 6 months and have travelled with me away from home. This is no fad or pretend turn over of my life. This is fact! I am a very different person although still basically the same at the core.
And I am on course to work in the media industry where many people have stage names or pseudonyms.
So I want to change my name to Gordon Jones.
It won't really affect you lot as you know me as Farsh-nuke but hence forth I shall be known as Gordon Jones, not Alex Jahans.
I've never been too happy with my name. In the wrong hands Alexander Jahans becomes Alexandra Yohans and there in lies a world of pain and agony when every P.E teacher thinks they're being really clever when they pronounce your name in a foreign way.
That's probably a bit racist so sorry but Jahans does to some ears sound a bit foreign. My dad is constantly asked where he comes from and as a result he virtually has a pie chart detailing just how much of him is foreign and where from. The whole point is moot when it comes to me because as far as I'm concerned I'm English! My dad's born and raised in Bristol, his mum helped in the war, and my mum comes from such an English bloodline that my uncle now lives in Shakespeare's home town. I myself am a very loyal fan of the BBC and proudly feel a mixture of nostalgia and patriotism when I see the Great British Icons.
Okay I can tell you're all wondering now if I vote for the BNP and I don't, though I would rather like the BNP to be like British national sports, full of the best from all around the world. Also I rather like my middle name, Gordon, nice and resounding in it's stiff upper lipness. Gordon is the name of a banker, fiercely intelligent, serious, moral, a bit dull maybe but eminently trust worthy.
I like Gordon, Gordon's a nice name.
Other things to consider are the facts that someone by the name of Alex Jahans has a widely known reputation in Woking, one he doesn't like, and there is the fact that I did a lot of things as Alex Jahans that I now regret but things that I cannot simply ignore as childish stupidity because at the time I always thought it was the right thing to do, I can't devalue or cheapen those choices but neither can I be associated with them. I have to draw a line in the sand and say that was then and this is now.
Also I have changed so much since those schooldays, I have done so much, to keep calling myself the same person when the habits and thoughts, the personality and the actual physicality are long gone is a lie and a sham. Alex Jahans died watching Top gear on Dave then I took over, eager to learn about the world and fit in, he lingered on though, the madness and naivety of Alex Jahans continued on until the death of the tenth Doctor and the end of 2009. Now the scheming loner who cared only for tele and not for hygiene or education or a balanced diet, the boy who stubbornly refused to be organised or have any sort of routine and loved his mum and was terrified of his dad is dead.
I still look like him of course and still indulge in pizza, diet coke and mints, I still need tv and fiction to survive but now I brush my teeth 4 times a day (actually twice but I brush first with a manual to apply to toothpase then use an electric toothbrush), shower weekly, keep a diary, use a calender, take care in my appearance and eat veg with my main meals aswell as drinking fruit with my dietcoke. It's not new either, all have been done for atleast 6 months and have travelled with me away from home. This is no fad or pretend turn over of my life. This is fact! I am a very different person although still basically the same at the core.
And I am on course to work in the media industry where many people have stage names or pseudonyms.
So I want to change my name to Gordon Jones.
It won't really affect you lot as you know me as Farsh-nuke but hence forth I shall be known as Gordon Jones, not Alex Jahans.
I am doing NaNoWriMo
You can read my NaNoWriMo novel by following my my blog. Everyday I post that day's words as a new part to the story on my blog.
This is Part 1 http://farsh-nuke.blogspot.co.uk/2014/11/the-venus-trap-online-edition-part-1.html
I look forwards to reading your feedback.
The upcoming canonicalness
Hello,
My name is Alex Jahans, I post reviews on youtube as Gordon Jones and I have also written a lot on here in the past. This is where I learned my trade and developed as a writer. Characters, settings and a whole load of general mish mash was born here. Well I leave university soon and might even have left by the time you read this so here is what I intend for the future.
I intend to self publish a series of short stories in themed collections eg Farsh-nuke short stories, general stories from the nothingness and stories centered on the United Civilisations of the Multiverse. These will be promoted on my youtube with reviews from other p
The long dark rebirth of the soul
Greetings friends.
It has been a while. I've grown a lot, changed a lot but the journey isn't over yet. I'm breaking more and more of my solemn vows, watching and reading more and more of the sacred cows. 2001 a space odyssey, John Carpenter's The Thing. The Assassin's Creed games, the Batman Games. The Lord of the Rings. I have listened to podcasts and learned the history of Rome, learned about the cavaliers and roundheads, watched Hornblower and read temeraire. I have a lust and zeal for history that I never had before. I've watched all of Farscape, almost all of Babylon 5, I've started watching Battlestar Galactica Reimagined and I am wei
Cloudy skies are here again
I think, like the dark days before I discovered Doctor Who, I'm going through a breakdown again and not one of those neat weekenders before going back to normal but a proper long hard hard slow death and rebirth of the soul and personality. Only this time I can't just crawl into a coccoon of TV and pizza, instead I'm throwing myself into my work and pasting on my happy face because I'm dead inside and there's nothing I can do.
There are no quick fixes in this, the days when a bag of mints would solve my problems are long gone, now they just hurt my mouth. It's not going to be fun to know me now and it hasn't for a few months and I apologise.
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Ok, Gordon it is. I really dont see any difficulty with that. A lot of the men in my family go by their second names, my uncle Raymond is actually named John.
Similarly, my mother goes by a different name to the one on her birth cert, and a girl in my year began to use her last name instead of her first, because her first was too hard to pronounce.
People tie too much to someone's name. It's the person that matters, and if negativity and difficulty are tied to your name, then you might as well escape it as much as possible.
Similarly, my mother goes by a different name to the one on her birth cert, and a girl in my year began to use her last name instead of her first, because her first was too hard to pronounce.
People tie too much to someone's name. It's the person that matters, and if negativity and difficulty are tied to your name, then you might as well escape it as much as possible.